This is Jack. He loves zip-ties and drawing. He has a best friend named Dan. He will be 10 in less than a month. His favorite food is "nutella crepes." He wants to be an artist. Or an actor. He wants to do a lot of different things, all at once.
This is Miles. He is 7- he will be eight in July. He likes lots of things in general and not so much specifically. He is a picky eater. He wants to sleep like a burrito, and never make his bed. He never has a problem finding a friend to play with on the playground- on any playground. His best friend is Michael.
These boys seek each other out, and want to play with each other, but at any moment- ANY MOMENT- it might become a violent and loud fight. What was play one second ago becomes a battle this second. The worst punishment I can give them is to not let them play with each other.